the Jane history....

Hi, my name is Jane, I'm 13 years old, I study in a good school That Has many students, Have 57 in my class peoples. But I Not Have the true friends. In principal, I suffered bullying, girls exclude me, put nicknames, I felt really bad, Was always hidden crying, But I did not speak to my mother, or to any Responsible, after I Became a friend of the girls Who played with me and I spent practicing bullying with a girl who studied with me, when I saw was part of a conspiracy against a simple girl, and I could not stop, I was afraid of my friends stop liking me.

what you should do...

Some young people are bullied for no particular reason , but sometimes it's because they are different in some way-perhaps it's colour of their skin, the way the talk their size or their name. Coping with bullyng can be difficult, but remember, you are not the problem the bullyis.You have a rightto feel safe and secure. And if you'redifferent in some way, be proud of it! KIA KAHA-stand strong. Spend time whith you friends-bullies hardly ever pick on people if they're whih others in a group. You're probably already tried ignoring the bully, telling them to stop and walking away whenever the bullying stars. If someone is bullyingyou, you shold always tell an adultyou can trust. This isn't telling tales. You have a right to be safe and adults can do things to get the bullying stopped. Even if you think you're solved the problem on your onw, tell an adult anyway, in case it happens again. An adult you can trust might be a teacher, school principal, parent, someone from your family or whanau, or a friend's parent. If you find it difficult to talk about begin bullied, you might find it easier to write donw what's been happening to you and give it to an adult you trust.

Why do some people bully?

There a lot of reasons why some peaple bully.They may see as a way of being popular, or making themselves look tough and in charge. Some bullies do it to get attention or thing, or to make other people afraid of them.Others might be jealous of the person they are bullying.they may be being bullied themselves.Some bullies may not even understand how wrong their behaviour is and how it makes the person being bullied feel.

Dan Olweus defines bullying

Norwegian researcher Dan Olweus defines bullying as when a person is
"exposed, repeatedly and over time, to negative actions on the part of one or more other persons." He defines negative action as "when a person intentionally inflicts injury or discomfort upon another person, through physical contact, through words or in other ways."

Bullying Hurts

Bullying is when someone keeps doing or saying things to have power over another person.
Some of the ways they bully other people are by: calling them names, saying or writing nasty things about them, leaving them out of activities, not talking to them, threatening them, making them feel uncomfortable or scared, taking or damaging their things, hitting or kicking them, or making them do things they don't want to do.